Time? Where do I find the time?

As a mom I sometimes feel stressed everyday because it feels that I have too much to do and not enough time to get it done.  As a busy mom of 2 I know this feeling all too well.  Fortunately I have somewhat learned how to use  time management skills that I learned from my own mother, other moms, and in the workplace to manage my time at home.  I believe that balance in life is one of the keys to happiness, and that all moms should be able to balance what they have to do with what they want to do.

My days are very busy and there is always too much to do and not enough time.  

However, at the end of the day I almost always get it all done.  

My day is full of little events, activities and chores that fill up, even before it starts. Most of these things seem insignificant and usually never ending. We fill up our days with wiping counters, cleaning up our children's messes, playing, and running errands. In between breaths and during naps, we check email, update our Facebook and maybe even grab a cup of coffee.

What about the important things of the day? The big events? The big projects? The big priorities? Like reading to your kids every day, being attentive to your husband, spending quiet time with your Bible or keeping your body healthy with food and exercise? Will they fit into our lives when we are overrun with all the little things?

Hardly. As mothers we generally spend more time focused on others—school schedules, husband’s work and kids’ activities. And our big priorities? They become an afterthought. 

What if you got up early and read your Bible? What if you stopped fretting about spotless floors and spent time playing with your kids? What if you shut the computer during breakfast and talked about your kids’ day? What would happen to all those little things that “have to” get done?

I know, as a mom, I don’t have time for time management! I volunteer with the SNCO Wives Club, go to Bible study,  Assistant Coach my daughters soccer team, I am our church Nursery Coordinator, I volunteer as a FRA for my husbands squadron, and keep busy with other activities. But I do have time for priorities. I do have time to do what's important. I do have time to focus on the good, big, significant things.

Putting the laundry away. Spending an hour or two with my husband before I fall asleep. Reading my Bible before the kids wake up. Taking a shower and getting dressed before breakfast.

When I do those things, I find myself empowered to tackle bigger things while still enjoying the small things (Facebook, blogging, girls’ nights out , and getting pampered) as I want.